Embracing Connections: A Migrant’s Journey of Identity and Belonging in Mumbai

As I set foot on this new journey, I find myself standing at the intersection of dreams and realities. My three-day stay in Mumbai from October 25 to October 27, 2024, serves as a significant prelude to my upcoming flight to Madagascar on October 28. It is here, in this vibrant metropolis, that I am reminded of the powerful essence of migration and the intricate web of human connections that define our experiences.

Arriving at Bandra Terminus on the morning of October 24, I felt both the weight of my luggage and the burden of uncertainty. Migration often comes with its own set of challenges—navigating unfamiliar streets, understanding local customs, and, at times, confronting the harshness of indifference. Yet, amidst these hurdles, I encountered a touch of serendipity that illuminated the path ahead.

An uncle, a stranger turned guardian, offered his assistance when I appeared overwhelmed. His guidance was invaluable as he navigated the complexities of local transport, teaching me how to avoid the extortionate fares of unregulated taxi drivers. This moment reinforced an essential lesson in migration: we often find support in unexpected places, and kindness can transcend the barriers of language and culture.

However, not every encounter was uplifting. When I declined the services of a local taxi driver, I was met with derogatory remarks that momentarily threatened my dignity. It was a stark reminder of the challenges migrants face, often met with prejudice or hostility. Yet, just as despair threatened to overshadow my spirit, another uncle emerged like a beacon of hope. He offered me a ride in his taxi, and what began as a simple act of kindness transformed into a profound connection.

Within minutes of our journey, I discovered that this stranger hailed from Uttar Pradesh, my neighbour state. Our conversation flowed effortlessly, bridging the gaps of unfamiliarity and creating a sense of camaraderie that was both comforting and invigorating. Sharing stories about our families and experiences, I realized that migration, despite its trials, can lead to unexpected friendships and profound understanding. In this bustling city, I felt a sense of belonging—a reminder that our roots connect us, even in the most distant lands.

As evening fell, I strolled along the picturesque Juhu Beach, a place that resonated with echoes of home. Alone yet unaccompanied, I was approached by a photographer who offered to capture my image. Initially hesitant, I felt an inexplicable pull toward his familiar manner of speaking our native language. In that moment, I experienced a wave of nostalgia, a longing for the warmth of connection.

He expertly guided me through a photoshoot, coaxing laughter and smiles from me as we shared stories. Our exchange felt less like a transaction and more like a reunion. By the end of the session, we had exchanged numbers, creating yet another thread in the intricate tapestry of my journey.

The photos taken during this shoot are more than mere images; they encapsulate my joy—not just in being photographed but in discovering someone from my own home state. I will be attaching these photos to showcase the happiness that such connections bring, illustrating how they can transform a solitary experience into one filled with warmth and shared identity.

This first day in Mumbai has taught me a profound lesson about the nature of migration: when we venture into new territories, we often seek the familiar, yearning for connections that remind us of home. Our identities, shaped by our culture and heritage, offer us strength and resilience in the face of adversity. It is in these encounters—whether uplifting or challenging—that we find the essence of what it means to be human.

As I prepare for the next leg of my journey to Madagascar, I am filled with anticipation. I look forward to uncovering more stories and forging deeper connections with fellow migrants, as well as exploring the dynamics of the Indian diaspora. Each encounter and every conversation will contribute to my understanding of our shared experiences, illustrating the beauty and complexity of migration.

Let us remember that our journeys, marked by both challenges and triumphs, are not isolated. We are part of a larger narrative that embraces the diversity of human experiences. Together, we can foster empathy and understanding, celebrating the rich tapestry of identities that shape our world.

Join me as I navigate this journey of exploration, connection, and self-discovery. In sharing our stories, we can inspire one another, paving the way for a future where our diverse backgrounds are not merely acknowledged but celebrated. Together, we can create a community that uplifts and supports each other, reminding us that in the vast sea of humanity, we are never truly alone.

Author

  • Prakash Kumar Jha is the Founder and Editor-in-Chief of the Pravasi Setu Foundation, an organization dedicated to bridging research and advocacy on migration and diaspora issues. As a Senior Research Fellow of the University Grants Commission and a PhD candidate at Jawaharlal Nehru University (JNU), Prakash focuses his academic research on the Indian diaspora in Madagascar, exploring their economic, social, cultural, and political contributions from 1960 to 2019. Prakash is also the editor of Pravasi Pulse, a magazine that highlights key themes related to migration and diaspora, fostering discussions around identity, culture, and policy. Prakash believes in producing meaningful research and fostering dialogue to address the complexities of migration, with a focus on inclusion and understanding. Through the Pravasi Setu Foundation, he hopes to contribute to building bridges between communities and fostering deeper insights into the migration experience.  

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